Postsecret review 20

Another one, finally. Here goes.

"Sometimes I think about all of the money I'd have if my parents died." Materialistic much?

[over a postcard photo that says "Philadelphia]
"We grew up together. He's a cop now. He told about how he let a woman suffer an overdose without stepping in to help her. 'That's not a life worth saving,' he said. Even his mom was horrified. He wasn't always like this."
In light of recent events, I assume. I think the narrative of this secret is interesting.

[over a photo of an average-sized woman who is nude] "I think my dad loves me less because I'm getting fatter"
In general, I'd say this is a shallow thing to love a family member less for. There are at least some legitimate reasons to love one's family members less for, but this... doesn't quite seem like one of them. Though I suppose it depends on how fatter exactly the person is getting -- up into the My 600-lb Life territory, it seems a bit more understandable...

"None of my skills are worth anything
I'll work until I die"
It makes me wonder what this person's skills are that apparently aren't worth anything. And/or if they have ever tried or wanted to learn new skills that would be worth something if their current ones aren't.

[in lovely cursive handwriting over a photo of a woman wearing a dress with duct tape over her chest and hands covering her face/mouth]
"I think I fell in love with you... because you were always so gentle when you took the duct tape off. Thank you. for everything."
I think this secret is really interesting partly because of the handwriting, but the content of the secret as well. It's so idiosyncratic. And sort of sweet in a way. I do wonder about the duct tape though -- I assume some sort of BDSM thing? Or is there some other/different context?

"Hallmark is like CRACK for me." I can relate to this one, sort of. At least when I find cards that suit my preferences. All those overly-sappy cards can get lost.

"I still blame you for letting my cat out the day she was killed." Without more context, I suppose I can understand still blaming/resenting someone for this. 

"I recognized your handwriting on a Sunday secret and wanted to say... it'll all be OK. I swear."
This sort of thing is interesting to me; I wonder about how many people out there have read a secret and definitively recognized the handwriting and/or were able to realize the secret was about them based on details/content of the secret and/or the postcard design (some include photos, that sort of thing). I don't think I'd necessarily be able to recognize a secret just based on the handwriting; I'm familiar with the handwriting of some of the people I know, but it's very possible that other people out there have similar handwriting. I can't recall if I've ever noticed handwriting on a secret that looked particularly similar to handwriting I know. If the handwriting and content of a secret both seemed to fit (and if a postmark were visible, if that fit as well) a person I knew, then I could be at least sort of sure, but perhaps still not completely.